I’m watching Long Island Medium, wondering if these people are for real. I did go to a medium once after Betsy died. I have a tape of our session. I didn’t know this woman, she had nothing but my first name. She knew things about Betsy and I that she couldn’t have found out on-line. It was very odd. I wonder because she told me that Betsy was around me all the time. My meditation teacher also said she could sense Betsy’s energy with me when I was in her sessions. But I never feel her around me. I sometimes have dreams, but I just can’t feel her presence. I just have to wonder if any other parents feel like me or are able to feel their child with them.
I wonder too, specifically about Long Island Medium. She seems very real, because a lot of the time she goes up to strangers in the most random of situations. I haven’t seen any mediums. A friend of mine desperately saw several after losing her son in a car accident. Some of the things she told me didn’t impress or convince me. She tried to talk me into going but I’ve realized that what I really want is my daughter here with me, and hearing that she’s with me in spirit or something similar won’t make me feel better.
I can’t say that I feel her presence. I think I did initially but haven’t since. I will say that sometimes I’ll wonder what it would be like to have her with me/us (at the grocery store, birthday party, etc.) and I can immediately picture her there at the age she would be now. It’s as though a ghost walks beside me.
I’ve started telling people I have three children–two who walk beside me and one who walks where I cannot see.
You bring up good points. That one does seem real, but I’m not sure about others. I was just really wondering what others thought. Your response to people is awesome! I may have to use that one myself.
The woman I saw told me I didn’t have to come back to her or any other medium, that I would be able to connect with my daughter. I’m still puzzled by this, but I try to keep an open mind, you never know.
I have never felt my son’s presence or seen any signs. Of course, I could easily interpret certain things as signs, but I know I’d be forcing them. I haven’t even seen my son in a dream yet, which is something I long for. My husband has seen our son in dreams, but he always wakes up crying when he realizes that it was just a dream.
My daughter has had dreams that she believes are messages and she thinks she feels her brother’s presence at times. She is sincere, so I try to take some comfort in what she tells me. I would desperately like to feel a connection or receive a sign, but I am skeptical. However, l also try to keep an open mind and would welcome any messages.